Arrrgggghhhhh!!!

Pin It So tired and drained.. doing the best we can to find some kind of living relative for Randy.  His mom has been gone for about 30 years, his dad for 10 and his sister for about 5 years, he only has a few relatives, cousins and a nephew, I think, but he hadn't talked to them for a long time..  The Medical Examiners office is still doing the autopsy but they are saying that if there isn't a family member to claim him then they can't release him to a funeral home for a burial or memorial or whatever.  Have a few friends searching for some of the relatives but it is so frustrating.  We were the closest thing he had to a family and they aren't even telling my husbands brother, whom Randy lived with for the past year much more than that.  I understand it takes some time for the autopsy and stuff but why would someone be hounding you for the body if they weren't 'family'!?!?!  Come on!!  We need and want to put him to rest somewhere!!  So tired physically and emotionally!